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who controls the past controls the future, who controls the
present controls the past.
one dad would say, "The love of money is the root of all evil." The other, "The lack of money is the root of all evil."
One of the reasons the rich get richer, the poor get poorer, and the middle class struggles in debt is because the subject of money is taught at home, not in school. Most of us learn about money from our parents. So what can a poor parent tell their child about money? They simply say "Stay in school and study hard." The child may graduate with excellent grades but with a poor person's financial programming and mind-set. It was learned while the child was young.
one dad had a habit of saying, "I can't afford it." The other dad
forbade those words to be used. He insisted I say, "How can I afford
it?" One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the
hook, and the other forces you to think.
My soon-to-be-rich dad would explain that by automatically saying the words "I can't afford it," your brain stops working. By asking the question "How can I afford it?" your brain is put to work. He did not
My soon-to-be-rich dad would explain that by automatically saying the words "I can't afford it," your brain stops working. By asking the question "How can I afford it?" your brain is put to work. He did not
mean buy everything you wanted. He was fanatical about exercising your mind,
the most powerful computer in the world. "My brain gets stronger every day
because I exercise it. The stronger it gets, the more money I can make."
He believed that automatically saying "I can't afford it" was a sign
of mental laziness.
Although both dads worked hard, I noticed that one dad had a habit of putting his brain to sleep when it came to money matters, and the other had a habit of exercising his brain. The long-term result was that one dad grew stronger financially and the other grew weaker. It is not much different from a person who goes to the gym to exercise on a regular basis versus someone who sits on the couch watching television. Proper physical exercise increases your chances for health, and proper mental exercise increases your chances for wealth. Laziness decreases both health and wealth.
My two dads had opposing attitudes in thought. One dad thought that the rich should pay more in taxes to take care of those less fortunate. The other said, "Taxes punish those who produce and reward those who don't produce."
One dad recommended, "Study hard so you can find a good company to work for." The other recommended, "Study hard so you can find a good company to buy."
One dad said, "The reason I'm not rich is because I have you kids."
The other said, "The reason I must be rich is because I have you
kids."
One encouraged talking about money and business at the dinner ,table. The other
forbade the subject of money to be discussed over a meal.
One said, "When it comes to money, play it safe, don't take risks." The other said, "Learn to manage risk."
One believed, "Our home is our largest investment and our greatest
asset." The other believed, "My house is a liability, and if your
house is your largest investment, you're in trouble."
Both dads paid their bills on time, yet one paid his bills first while the
other paid his bills last.
One would often say, "I've worked hard for the government, and I'm entitled to these benefits."
The other believed in total financial self-reliance. He spoke out against the
"entitlement" mentality and how it was creating weak and financially
needy people. He was emphatic about being financially competent.
One dad struggled to save a few dollars. The other simply created
investments.
One dad taught me how to write an impressive resume so I could find a good job.
The other taught me how to write strong business and financial plans so I could
create jobs.
I noticed that people really do shape their life through their thoughts.
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For example, my poor dad always said, "I'll never be rich." And that
prophesy became reality. My rich dad, on the other hand, always referred to
himself as rich. He would say things like, "I'm a rich man, and rich
people don't do this." Even when he was flat broke after a major financial
setback, he continued to refer to himself as a rich man. He would cover himself
by saying, "There is a difference between being poor and being broke. -
Broke is temporary, and poor is eternal."
My poor dad would also say, "I'm not interested in money," or "Money doesn't matter." My rich dad always said, "Money is power."
One wanted me to study hard, earn a degree and get a good job to work for
money. He wanted me to study to become a professional, an attorney or an
accountant or to go to business school for my MBA. The other encouraged me to
study to be rich, to understand how money works and to learn how to have it
work for me. "I don't work for money!" were words he would repeat
over and over, "Money works for me!"
In short Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki advocates financial independence and tells how attitude makes great differences in life.It offers financial education content to help you learn about cash flow, real estate, investing, how to start a business and most important its your way of looking at life which determines all the success.
In short Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki advocates financial independence and tells how attitude makes great differences in life.It offers financial education content to help you learn about cash flow, real estate, investing, how to start a business and most important its your way of looking at life which determines all the success.